I’m not there yet, but I do think about being in the moment, which is something I can practice when I am alone. A good way is to take pictures. Um, there’s always food.
One of the down sides of solitary travel is that I find myself stepping into an unconscious world, neither here or there, not present to the moment. If anything I’m inclined to dwell in the future, which in Florence often means where and what my next meal will be. As I get older I need to pay attention to this tendency, because let’s face it, my future is limited. In her last years Mom was grateful for happy memories and the way her life had worked out. Her future thoughts circled around immediate plans, which often included the next meal, and although she didn’t talk about it much, how and when she would die,. Primarily she enjoyed the moment she was in. She would sit at family gatherings, smiling, observing, and participating when someone sat down to talk with her. I’m not there yet, but I do think about being in the moment, which is something I can practice when I am alone. A good way is to take pictures. Um, there’s always food.
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This morning the forecast was for one of the few (only?) sunny days I’ll be offered during my stay here. So I’m out of doors, first to the Bardini Gardens and then on to the adjacent Boboli Gardens and the Pitti Palace. A few clouds are looming but there is still plenty of sun, so I have chosen to sit on a bench, eat my sandwich, and write. Traveling alone gives me this kind of easy choice. Each day I can decide exactly what I want to do, and then at any given moment, I can turn on a dime and change my plan. Displaying such behavior with a traveling companion would be beyond the orbit of social principle or courtesy. I certainly wouldn’t expect anyone to stop because I have this whim to sit down and write. It would take conversation and compromise, something I appreciated being away from for a while. Traveling with someone isn’t good or bad, it’s just different. If you want silence, solitude and simplicity and sometimes like to be alone, which is what the blog is about, you might consider occasionally traveling by yourself. I made it! With ease! Boston weather cleared and with that, clear flying all the way to Florence. I won’t attempt to compare driving through Boston snow flying over the snowy Alps. Here in Florence it has been in the 50s. Last evening a tad of sun, today cloudy with a tad of rain. The city looks just like the Florence I experience in spring and fall, minus the crowds, the sun and the outdoor cafes. That being said, let me clarify. There are plenty of people, not just throngs; the sun is supposed to shine next Sunday; a few outdoor cafes are open, some even with heaters, and yes, people are choosing to eat al fresco. As I mentioned last year, when I come to Florence I pretend that I’m living here. That’s not really accurate, however, because I am not pretending. I am living here, if only for ten days. I do very touristy things; I visit museums and churches, and I eat out. But two things make my time here different. I come as often as I can and I come alone. I don’t know how that defines me. Maybe unusual, or at least one of a kind. So, here I am, with some ways that will stay the same and with some new intentions. I’ll keep the same touristy activities, the same writing and blogging routines. I’ll also try a couple of new ways of pretending. As a start, I am going to look up as I walk along so I can notice the amazing world carved right into the buildings of Florence. Secondly, I am going to venture into every library I can discover and spend time writing in each one. Stay tuned. I’m taking an hiatus from those paths listed in a draper’s shop in India and shifting my concentration to my up coming vacation to Italy (maybe I’ll find a list in some shop in Florence). I figure that since the weather gods have been unmerciful in Boston these past weeks, they may be ready to give us a break on Sunday evening (current forecast is for rain, which bodes better than snow). and keep the runway clear for an easy takeoff to Amsterdam. Looking ahead, I can handle 47 degrees for my layover there. And it gets better; 61 degrees, partly sunny upon my arrival in Florence. So easy to become self-involved about all of this, even while knowing that it is completely out of my control. What I can control, however, is how I respond. My plan is to act with the expectation that all will go as planned—pack, call the bank so they won’t put an alert on my credit card, check flight status on line, get to the airport on time. I never make any contingency plans. Bad travel karma! Plus, there will be more than enough time to do that if necessary. P. S. Yesterday I met a friend for lunch at Bertucci’s and this mural was over the booth where we sat. The photo is taken from St. Trinita bridge looking toward the Ponte Vecchio. Weather gods willing, I will be right there in three days. This has to be good karma. Life is love…Enjoy it. Now that is my kind of thought. A mantra I can I can live with, a suggestion I am willing to follow. When times are tough it may not be easy to find love, but I believe that if we look long and hard and not give up, we will. Whatever we believe becomes our reality, and whatever we believe, we come to enjoy. Um, I wonder, does it follow that if I believe that life is hate, I will enjoy it? Not enjoy as in pleasant, but it will take over my life. I have a choice, so I might as well choose love. All Paths Lead To Me √ Life is an Adventure ... Dare it √ Life is a Beauty ... Praise it √ Life is a Challenge ... Meet it √ Life is a Duty ... Perform it √ Life is a Love ... Enjoy it Life is a Tragedy ... Face it Life is a Struggle ... Fight it Life is a Promise ... Fulfill it Life is a Game ... Play it Life is a Gift ... Accept it Life is a Journey ... Complete it Life is a Mystery ... Unfold it Life is a Goal ... Achieve it Life is an Opportunity ... Take it Life is a Puzzle ... Solve it Life is a Song ... Sing it Life is a Sorrow ... Overcome it Life is a Spirit ... Realize it Life is Struggle… Fight it Life is a Puzzle… Solve it Life is a Goal… Achieve it Seen in a drapers shop in India Number 3, “Life is a challenge…meet it,” is still on hold, but something we come up. Meanwhile, I’ll tackle Number 4, Life is a Duty…perform it. This is my least favorite, at least the wording doesn’t resonate. I don’t think of life as a duty, although clearly there are many duties that I have to perform. Duty feels like burden, which isn’t the way I look at what I have to do—tasks such as cooking, cleaning, getting the car serviced, going to the dentist, attending to others…. They are all part of my life, but they don’t define who I am or what I do. I know I’ve been fortunate in not being overloaded with obligations and duties that I’ve had to perform, but I’d like to add, “Life is a joy…grab it.” All Paths Lead To Me √ Life is an Adventure ... Dare it √ Life is a Beauty ... Praise it √ Life is a Challenge ... Meet it √ Life is a Duty ... Perform it Life is a Love ... Enjoy it Life is a Tragedy ... Face it Life is a Struggle ... Fight it Life is a Promise ... Fulfill it Life is a Game ... Play it Life is a Gift ... Accept it Life is a Journey ... Complete it Life is a Mystery ... Unfold it Life is a Goal ... Achieve it Life is an Opportunity ... Take it Life is a Puzzle ... Solve it Life is a Song ... Sing it Life is a Sorrow ... Overcome it Life is a Spirit ... Realize it Life is Struggle… Fight it Life is a Puzzle… Solve it Life is a Goal… Achieve it Seen in a drapers shop in India
Life is a Challenge ... Meet it. Truth Number Three from the sign in a draper’s shop in India. The challenge I have chosen involves my trip to Scotland in June. I had planned to spend four nights in Edinburgh, a city I know and love, before going to the Isle of Iona for a week. That’s a great plan, but not much of a challenge. Instead, I decided to island hop, making my way from Glasgow Airport, to the Isles of Islay and Colonsay, to Oban and then to Iona. The first challenge involves securing lodging reservations and checking ferry schedules so I don’t become stranded on a non-deserted island. Case in point: the ferry from Colonsay to Oban is only scheduled for Thursday. The other challenge awaits me when I arrive and put all my plans into action. Thankfully, I have ferry schedules and the internet to help me plan this intense, fast-paced itinerary. Just the perfect travel challenge for me. All Paths Lead To Me √ Life is an Adventure ... Dare it √ Life is a Beauty ... Praise it √ Life is a Challenge ... Meet it Life is a Duty ... Perform it Life is a Love ... Enjoy it Life is a Tragedy ... Face it Life is a Struggle ... Fight it Life is a Promise ... Fulfill it Life is a Game ... Play it Life is a Gift ... Accept it Life is a Journey ... Complete it Life is a Mystery ... Unfold it Life is a Goal ... Achieve it Life is an Opportunity ... Take it Life is a Puzzle ... Solve it Life is a Song ... Sing it Life is a Sorrow ... Overcome it Life is a Spirit ... Realize it Life is Struggle… Fight it Life is a Puzzle… Solve it Life is a Goal… Achieve it Seen in a drapers shop in India All Paths Lead To Me √ Life is an Adventure ... Dare it √ Life is a Beauty ... Praise it Here is the second truth from a sign entitled, “Seen in a draper's shop in India.” As I mentioned in my 2/2/15, my plan is to explore each of the 21 truths on the list. If I write one every other day it will take more than my original intention to finish in a month. However, I’d like to complete the task before I fly to Florence on February 22nd. Not realistic I tell myself. Life is Beauty…Praise it When I close my eyes, my first imagine is of snow, specifically the shadows of trees cast by the moonlight last night. Then I wander to the beauty of the hill of Mull and the beaches of Iona, to Fiesoli overlooking Florence, and God knows where else. It’s easy to praise the beauty of nature, but there are other beauties: smiles and other human contact, the arts, satisfaction of a job well done. The point is to take time to offer praise and gratitude, as part of faith tradition, or perhaps just in wonderment of the conditions in which we human beings can find ourselves. The following, “Seen in a draper’s shop in India,” is quoted in The Mystic Vision; Daily Encounters with the Divine, complied by Andrew Harvey and Anne Baring. I have posted it in 2013 and 2014, and now here it is again, asking to be presented. How universal it is! There are 21 individual messages. What if I take a month to ponder them? That would be one a day with some grace time. I’m going to give it a try. I’ll pick something that I’d like to experience, write it up, and then give it a try. Here goes. Life is an Adventure…Dare it. I’m adventuring to Florence on February 22nd, which is isn’t a big adventure for me because I’ve been many times before. I know how to get there, I am comfortable traveling alone, I know the language, and I love the food. It feels like home. So what is my adventure? What do I dare do on this trip? As un-daring as it may seem, this time I am renting a different apartment in a different area of the city. I’ve been tempted to sign on to my usual place, but something keeps telling me to dare the uncertainty of a new location. If I don’t take the dare, I know I’ll be disappointed in myself. Each trip, even to the same place, must be a new adventure. On the same line of thought, I am going to dare do a little island hopping when I go to Scotland in June. All Paths Lead to me √ Life is an Adventure ... Dare it Life is a Beauty ... Praise it Life is a Challenge ... Meet it Life is a Duty ... Perform it Life is a Love ... Enjoy it Life is a Tragedy ... Face it Life is a Struggle ... Fight it Life is a Promise ... Fulfill it Life is a Game ... Play it Life is a Gift ... Accept it Life is a Journey ... Complete it Life is a Mystery ... Unfold it Life is a Goal ... Achieve it Life is an Opportunity ... Take it Life is a Puzzle ... Solve it Life is a Song ... Sing it Life is a Sorrow ... Overcome it Life is a Spirit ... Realize it Life is Struggle… Fight it Life is a Puzzle… Solve it Life is a Goal… Achieve it Seen in a draper's shop in India |
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