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My usual way is to move quickly to the future, but these past twelve or so years, since I began spending time at the cottage by the sea, have help me stay in the moment rather than rush away from unpleasant things. And so I sit with this sadness. For sure the family can’t rush away; so why should I? Instead, I sit with them.